Have you ever wondered why some people fell down and defeated when face difficult situations, while others fell challenge and hopeful? These different reactions are related to how people interpret events. They can think positively, from an optimistic point of view, or negatively from a pessimistic point of view.
The difference between optimists and pessimist is not a difference in life experiences but rather in how people perceive and respond to problems. For example, an optimist who is going to a hard time feels confident that life will get better, while a pessimist is more sarcastic and believe life will always be difficult and painful. Pessimists are tented to expect the worst and see only problems. Optimists, on the other hand, expect the best. While a pessimist may give up, and optimist will see a solution instead of seeing a problem.
We can learn from both optimists and pessimists, most of us need help being optimistic. Maintaining a hopeful, positive and a realistic perspective to face had times can be really a challenge, but is essential to live peaceful and happily. Just as important to recognize what is unjust and unfair in our lives and the world, is important to see the beauty, loves and goodness.
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well being pesimist sometimes would be good
people cant always think that something is gonna be fine. it is some kinda "stupid"
there's always things that can't be helped, things that even the most optimist person in world can´t see a solution.
being pessimist will help you to control your hopes, sometimes it is better not to wait for a solution
what i try to say is that being optimist all time, is not gonna make you live happy
Nowadays, people called pesimist to all of those people who are just realistics...I think anybody can say that everything is gonnal be allright. Sometimes is good to be pesimist beacuase in many cases you are gonna feel unhappy if you don't get what you wanted to get, so that if you don't expect something, you are not gonna feel unhappy about that...
In my opinion you always have to see life from a posittive view, because problems always have a solution, the reason of why life is a beuty is beacuse we are always looking up for The Pursuit of Happyness and just the ones that see life from a possitive point of view will find the happiness and make all their dreams come true.
i think that is good to see things in a good way and expect always the best of everything, but let's face it... that is almost impossible, no matter how hard you try, there are always situations or days in what you feel bad ando you just simply can't expect that things get better.
the best is to be a realistic person, face the things just as they are, without going to any of the extremes an your life will be better than if you are either an optimist or a pesimist.
I think that the best way is to accept things as they really happen, not the fact of being pessimistic, we must understand that problems exist and we are always bound to affect us, accepting its existence, is a good way to tackle them. In the other hand people should not close mentally themselves when there is a problem, because then it will always be with you, and nobody would like to live with a problem for the rest of his life, we must find ways of a solutions, but sometimes the solutions are not so clear.
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